My sibling recently got engaged to her longtime bestie Wendy.
The pair of us have never really gotten along very well.
The issue is that we don’t ever have anything to talk about. There is no respect found between us. But Wendy is going to be my sibling in law soon, so I have decided to make more of an effort. I signed her up for my group fitness class. Two afternoons a week we take a class with a personal trainer at our local core progression center. I look forward to my classes. I love doing a group toil out and getting motivated. This personal trainer is just amazing. She is always pushing us to go one more rep, go faster and be better. I am losing so much weight and having a blast while doing it. Wendy hates going to the class every week. She complains bitterly when the session has come. She doesn’t do all the exercises that the trainer gives her. She doesn’t do the extra rep or go faster when instructed. Typically she half does the exercises and says our trainer is very mean. I am appalled by her behavior. I really don’t want to be neighbors with her in the class. She is the only one being bratty in the class. I have to partner her too and I don’t like doing that either. I want us to push each other and do everything the trainer says. Wendy frequently will just quit. I think that a fitness class is not the thing that connects us as friends. I want to tell her not to come with me anymore.